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There is no perfect decision, just the best decision in the current timeline using the currently available facts.  Here are some tips

 Write down exactly what you need to decide. A vague question such as “What should I do next?” is not helpful whereas a specific decision such as “Should I accept this offer by Friday?” is more easily reached..

List what you know for certain, what you believe might happen and what you are just worried about. Separate out worst-case scenarios from most likely outcomes.

Consider what matters most in this situation. When options involve trade-offs, it is useful to list in terms of your priorities 

Write down the main choices you are facing, including the possibility of delaying the decision, taking smaller steps or finding a compromise. 

 For each option, consider the likely short-term and long-term outcomes. Ask yourself:

• What might improve if I choose this option?
• What difficulties could it create?
• Which consequences are temporary, and which may be lasting?

 Speak with people who have relevant experience, understand your circumstances or can offer an impartial perspective. But think through their opinions and make your own assessment too.

Anxiety may signal uncertainty or risk, but it may also be a habit that leads to avoidance of all risk. Ask yourself if what you are fearing is realistic and add that into the information before reaching a decision

Confidence does not mean always feeling completely certain. Sometimes it means recognising that no option is perfect and choosing the one that best fits your circumstances and values.